Well, ain't that nice. Tells me to 'immediately' call the attendance office to speak with them - criminal that I am now. So I have been calling for 2 hours just to get voice mail. Of course they are not the one's that I am going to boot in the butt. Tried to call Angie - the social worker at Richmond State School to find out what was going on without the dates Jessie was absent, but ... of course, voice mail. I did not trust myself to leave a calm, reasonable message, so now I am just looking for puppies to kick. Charlie is no where to be found.20 October 2008
Hide Your Puppies!!!
Well, ain't that nice. Tells me to 'immediately' call the attendance office to speak with them - criminal that I am now. So I have been calling for 2 hours just to get voice mail. Of course they are not the one's that I am going to boot in the butt. Tried to call Angie - the social worker at Richmond State School to find out what was going on without the dates Jessie was absent, but ... of course, voice mail. I did not trust myself to leave a calm, reasonable message, so now I am just looking for puppies to kick. Charlie is no where to be found.Depression
Years ago I swore off anti-depressant pills – they make me someone that I am not. I realized this one horrifying day back when I was throwing up from Lyme Disease medication and had to go off all my meds. A few days later Gary said “You’re back”. I will never forget the realization that, yes, I was me again, where had I been and how long had I been gone?
The trick, I have decided, is getting rid of the clouds and finding the sun again.
I have yet to figure out how….
19 October 2008
Friendship
Soon, we strong armed Linda into going to lunch with us and we were a merry band of three.
I truly somewhere along the way had forgotten what it was like to have friends. I was used to being home with a handicapped daughter and in the beginning – spending much of that time in hospitals, doctor’s offices and at physical, speech and occupational therapies. There was truly no time for friends and then, I just lost the ability to make them.
Had it not been for a strong willed beautiful red head forcing me out of my house, I would still not know what it was like to have the support of others. We went on a cruise in February, with Linda praying things would go well for us. So – of course things were perfect. We leave on Sunday for another cruise and I am looking forward to it. Bonne is now in another ward and we don’t make it to lunch every week, but she still makes her ‘fly-by’ calls when she is in the car and we keep up with one another. Linda reads my blog almost daily (such a brave thing) just to get a feel for how I am doing before she calls to say hello and is there anything she can do for me.
Linda and Bonne – I have laughed and cried with each so much. They have taught me what a true friend is, and although I am not there yet, I am working on it.
How did I ever live without them?
17 October 2008
Portent of Things to Come ....
And suddenly I was back in Texas, and disappointed….

In Norway in the winter, the sun would rise late and set early and stay very low on the horizon – and for a photographer – you know what that means. Entire days full of perfect light to take photographs. The only good time to take a photograph (you can ask anyone – don’t trust me, I don’t know what I am doing) is at dusk and dawn. And here I lived, right in the middle of magic light for 6 to 8 hours a day – and everything I looked at looked like a beautiful photograph.
I will miss the snow.
Pedro & Julio Siting!!!
A ) Has way to much alone, at home, time on its' hands
B ) Has disconnected from any portion of sane, logical sense that is still left up there
OK, that being said. I have not seen Pedro and Julio since before Ike. Where do parrots go during a hurricane with 70 mph winds? I don't know - I didn't see tons of dead birds on the road after so apparently they were watching the news also. I hear birds chirping in my chimney all the time - for all I know it is an Avian Evacuation Shelter - but if not, where do they go? I had assumed they just got out of town and stayed in parts unknown.
Yesterday, two familiar green birds landed on a tree outside and just sat there. To actually capture a photo of these very skittish fellows, I have to move as slow as a statue. For any of you who have seen the show Sneakers where Robert Redford has to move slowly through a room so he won't set off the alarms - Dan Ackroyds words go through my head every time: "Go real slow!!". I generally scare them off or don't get a good photo through the window. I need at least one siting during the day to raise the blinds.
They flew off and I raised the blinds. Then out of the blue - THREE green parrots alighted on my birdhouse - with one on the roof since there was no room. I froze and just watched and basically evaluated size. Nope - they were all the same size - no baby - just a tag along? In seconds the new one - looks 'fluffy' compared to Julio and Pedro - got nasty and had scared the two away. So either this is their 'child from hell' that eats way too much or a nasty friend. I named her Juanita for lack of anything else coming to my brain (and no, not because she was nasty - in all probability she is a male based on the actions of the other two, but I have way to many male names floating around already). Might just have to shuffle the names here now. I got one very poor shot off of the strange bird eating alone:
And in honor of Pedro and Julio's non-demise during Ike, I found two photos - one titled Julio and one titled Pedro (you realize I can't tell the two apart, right? - I'm insane but not REALLY insane) and thought I would post them:
Pedro
Julio16 October 2008
Karma
As you can see - we have decided what the upstairs family room is going to be when it grows up. We have not moved the furniture around / out yet, but the treadmill is in the perfect spot to watch TV, so I like it - I can also look to my right and see the family room downstairs - and watch the boys sitting, watching TV and eating Cheetos (kidding - I do it while they are gone). Speaking of the boys - each have been on it only once. I on the other hand have used it daily - put a gold star on my forehead. It does not hurt that I got the new year (last year) of CSI from Mr. Amazon (I don't watch TV - hate the commercials but do watch my favorite series on DVD) and told myself that I could only watch it while walking at 3 miles per hour .... up hill. Seems to be working.I wonder what this blog will get me ......
15 October 2008
Torturing Bob
I decided that since it was raining and Bob was already wet, he wouldn't mind being dunked head first into my tub so I could photograph something. I had asked Ryan to do the exact same thing and he said no. Bob was reluctant at first. Today was the first time I went in the back yard and couldn't find him. Put 'mind reader' on the list of things Bob can do. I finally found him hiding behind the shed. He seems happy enough, don't you think?
Hopefully, when I am in the water, I will be able to work out the half in / half out photo - I think they are cool. I can't seem to get rid of the blurry strip:
It takes pretty good photos out of the water also. This is my test shot. Basically because I can take the photo while sitting at my desk. The camera has a wider angle lens than my SLR - it cannot fit all this in to one photo:
All in all, I have had a pretty good 'wet' day. Bob is still in my tub, I told him he could swim for a while before putting him back outside. It looks like he may not know how:Drips & Drops
I realized that meant no laundry, no shower, no cleaning, no running the dishwasher, no drinks from the fridge dispenser, no watering the lawn, no watering my indoor plants. That is a lot of No's. I did not realize how dependant I am on being able to turn the tap and have clean, wet refreshing water rush out of the faucet.
It came on a while later.
I want to give my water company a big hug ....
13 October 2008
Yearly Well Woman Exam
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Here are my feet turning blue and going numb since they are just hanging out there with the circulation getting cut off. Or is it just me?
12 October 2008
Jessie's Sunday Visit
I told her Jessie was coming home for a while and she started to cry. She said she would miss Jessie so much, she did not want her to go. I was feeling bad and assured her that it would only be for a few hours and she started sobbing. I gave her a hug and said she would be back in no time and left her being consoled by three aides. I guess Jessie has some friends!

A shot of 'fro duck with his friends:Then we got the inevitable "I want to go back" statement. We are used to it now and it does not phase us. She says she does not want to go back to RSS generally on the ride back a couple of times, but seems to be more to make us feel good, or to be polite than for real - her heart is just not in it.
Jessie not being at home has become quite normal for us now. I thought it would take much longer. I thought the panic and fear would be around for, well I was afraid forever - but they have eased to a manageable level. Now I am just basking in the 'weirdness' of a house without a very large 3 year old in charge.
Life is good.
Gary's Baby is Home ...
Here is his baby, at its' final spot and - as promised showing the installation of one of the Mooring Dolphins (the dolphin is behind the two red cranes):
Since I was a bit confused with all the ships and stuff around, Gary supplied me with a diagram of what it will look like when it is done. As explained in one of the previous blogs about Gary's baby, ships loaded with cooled Liquid Natural Gas (LNG) will pull up beside this and off load it. It is then heated and shipped to Italy via a pipeline on the ocean floor. The ships are so big they are almost the length of both Mooring Dolphins and the GBS structure itself - which is pretty darn big since the GBS structure is approximately the size of 4 football fields, so the length of two football fields. The ships tie off to the dolphins on each end and settle on the bumpers on the side of the GBS (they are blue in the diagram and yellow on the actual structure).11 October 2008
Our Contribution
When Gary came home from work, we discussed the days events - he likes to check up on me (my sanity level) and Ryan (see if he stayed in town ...) the usual 'normal' family stuff. I mentioned Ryans rant. We laughed and wondered if we ever worried about the plight of our generation or the world at the age of 18. We pretty much remember the world revolving around us, and could see no farther than oh, the next date.
Gary had apparently given it some thought that evening, and as we were heading off to bed he said: "Next time you talk to Ryan, tell him this is my nightly routine: First I take a 5 gallon container of gas and I pour it in the toilet and flush. Then I take a pile of money and burn it. Then, just for fun, I spray hairspray outside for a few minutes." "Is that all? (No cans of oil dumped in a field? No throwing away car batteries, cellphones, collecting barrels of toxic waste?)" I asked. "Pretty much that's it for now." He replied.
You gotta wonder why the kid has rants ...
10 October 2008
Charlie's Friends
The funny part of Charlies relationship with Barney is that she is so gentle with him. She chews on him, but very gently. The rest of her toys (except Bob) have been ripped apart and stuffing strewn about the house - it is kind of creepy. The only 'injury' Barney has is a hole in the knee where he was hit with an arrow.
Yeah, an arrow - before moving to Norway, Gary Ryan and his friend Jordan were playing target practice in the backyard with the crossbow Gary had made (just so you know, there was a field behind our house - so they were not going to kill anyone with a stray arrow). They were looking for a good target to use and Barney seemed a perfect choice to all of us. They strapped Barney up by his arms and legs and went to town (obviously very bad shots) until Jessie came outside and screamed, horrified that they were killing Barney (with that huge mouth he has - it looked less like a friendly smile strapped up there - rather like a scream of horror - or he was smiling and enjoying it, and that is just icky). We took him down and gave him back to her. I packed it up when we moved to Norway and there it stayed until I unpacked after moving into this house.
Oddly, Jessie didn't care about Charlie adopting Barney - I guess she was over him.
09 October 2008
Gary's Baby Dolphins
THIS kind of dolphin: (OK, and the title should read: 'Garys Babys Dolphins'...)
Don't ask me, I have no clue about any of this. When Gary sent me the photos yesterday labeled: "Mooring Dolphin Progress and Photos", I was all "Cool - that is nice - what a lovely photo of Venice in the background ... would like to go there someday". Then promptly forgot them.Today he sent me photos of his baby in place off the shore of Venice with one of the 'dolphins' installed. I said that I was going to use one of the photos of the dolphins being towed out since I liked the photo of Venice in the background even though it was not a structure he designed. This seemed to upset him, since apparently it is a structure he designed and asked: "Why do you think I had all those trips to Venice?" I shot back that we had lived in Norway for like two whole years and I was still a bit fuzzy on why we lived there, what's a few trips to Venice in the big scheme of things?
So - apparently I have no idea what my husband does at work - I do know the important things - like if he drops dead at work I get a boatload of money - important things like that, but I will need to take a refresher course on 'What my husband does for a living' before posting the rest of the photos - his baby is in place 17 kms out of Venice with a cute (baby) dolphin (get it?) installed beside it. The other one was installed today but I don't have photos.
Here are the lovely photos of his structure complete with interesting background (they look really good when you click on them to make them bigger). This way you can pretend to admire his structure and really just be scoping out Venice (just kidding Gary, really).Note:
I was quite suprised that Wikipedia came through for me yet again: "A dolphin is a man-made marine structure that extends above the water level and is not connected to shore."
08 October 2008
Guilt Trip
I had not planned on bringing her home for a week at Thanksgiving anyway, and dinner would not mean anything to her, but still ...
OK, we fly back on Thanksgiving day and we will pick her up the next day and do something wonderful with her just to assuage our guilt - take her to Disneyland, buy her a pony, something ....
So here I am doing what I do before a trip (except for Prague) - studying travel books, googling 'Maui' and trying to come up with an itinerary. But ... there are too many things to do! If any of y'all have suggestions on the best places, especially to photograph, I would appreciate the input.
I'll probably feel guilty while in Maui, but boy, am I going to have fun doing it!
Double Duty
06 October 2008
(Crazy) Bird Lady
Unfortunately my Norwegian bird house met its demise one day when a huge gust of wind sent it flying off the deck.
Found a bird house for our new Texas home one day at a fair and promptly set it up - outside the window in front of my desk:
My most exotic visitors are two parrots - Julio and Pedro - yeah, I named them. They have wonderful conversations ... complete with Spanish accents and, of course completely in my head. That's when I started wondering if I am one of those creepy 'bird people'. I am not sure, but I do know that I am a 'bird house person'.
Ryan and I were picking up the corsage for his homecoming date at a florist shop and I found yet another bird house. I had to have it. My thinking was that it matched EXACTLY a bench I purchased in a small village in Norway and they were meant to be together. And, it sort of filled up the hole left by one of my ficus trees that had a branch die and left a gap that I feel is my mission to fill. The nest (complete with the cutest little eggs) did not seem to be enough, so .... a bird house:
I am pretty sure the next stage is me sitting on a park bench somewhere in tattered clothing and a bag of birdseed muttering to myself while tossing food to the birds.05 October 2008
Fences, Trees and Sunlight
04 October 2008
Cool Building
Of course, we had to go take photos ... I throw our small camera in my bag whenever I leave the house because you just never know what you might find.It is the Richmond Police Department. Looking awfully fancy for a police department and looking awfully similar to a building in La Grange, Texas that some helpful passerby had mentioned used to be a jail - I wondered aloud to Linda if this was the case here. Good 'ole Wikipedia came through once again to tell me yes, this used to be the jail. Incarceration in style!
Linda is no stranger to my forcing her to drive somewhere so I can take a photo - probably the most memorable (to her) would be this photo:
It is the bridge over the Brazos river. She acted as 'spotter', and as always: 'good sport' while I parked my car on the rail road tracks and snapped away.
02 October 2008
Jessie's House
Address:
Richmond State School
2100 Preston
Richmond, Texas 77469
Phone number (this rings to the San Jacinto - her house name - aides station):
281.344.4356
Here are some photos that I snapped today:
I am sure Jessie would love a call from any of you!





