I Wish You Enough ...

While trolling Facebook moments ago I ran across an absolute gem and decided that not only would I 'share' it on Facebook so all my friends could see it - I would put it on my blog. The poem at the end is absolutely ... perfect.

It was attributed to a Facebook site called "Quotes to Steal" ... something I avidly avoid! I am a stickler for giving credit where credit is due so I jumped over to the page to see if I could find the post and see if it was attributed to anyone.

I could not find it.

Thus on to investiGoogling I went!

I found it on Bob Perks website and he is writing it in first person thus I believe it is he who experienced this. Oddly in his writing the parent is a father where as in the post it is a mother - I wonder who and why that change was made?

I have copied it verbatim from his website:

I WISH YOU ENOUGH

Recently in the airport I overheard a father and daughter in their last moments together.

They had announced her departure and standing near the security gate, they hugged and he said, "I love you. I wish you enough."

She in turn said, "Daddy, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Daddy."

They kissed and she left. He walked over toward the window where I was seated.

Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking,

"Did you ever say goodbye to someone knowing it would be forever?"

"Yes, I have," I replied.

Saying that brought back memories I had of expressing my love and appreciation for all my Dad had done for me. Recognizing that his days were limited, I took the time to tell him face to face how much he meant to me.

So I knew what this man experiencing.

"Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever goodbye?" I asked.

"I am old and she lives much too far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is, the next trip back would be for my funeral," he said.

"When you were saying goodbye I heard you say, "I wish you enough." May I ask what that means?"

He began to smile.

"That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations.

My parents used to say it to everyone."

He paused for a moment and looking up as if trying to remember it in detail, he smiled even more.

"When we said 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them," he continued and then turning toward me he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.

~~~~~

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.

I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much

bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish enough "Hello's" to get you through the final "Goodbye”

~~~~~

He then began to sob and walked away.

Oddly - the last line is not in the Facebook post and is replaced by the following:

They say it takes a minute to find a special person. An hour to appreciate them. A day to love them. And an entire life to forget them.

I think I like that last one better ...

To all you out there in the bits and the bytes and the ether and the nothingness ...

I   WISH   YOU   ENOUGH ...